Monday, March 9, 2009
Fighting Back At The Right Time
Darren finally resigned. To leave a place where he has carved out quite a reputable niche for himself for a good part of the last three decades, that's not easy! But for no fault of his own, he was pulled out from what he was good at and thrown into a pit where he was mauled and mangled by tigresses very much his junior. He was not given a chance to pick up the new trade at his own pace, but was chided and abused openly for not abiding by the rules of the new den within just a couple of weeks of service. Open insults form a prerogative of those females who have managed to climb to the top, or almost near there. I could still remember the first shout of 'no excuse' hurled at me by a lioness with a deep voice that can terrorise many husbands-to-be. I was new to the job then and was not really guilty of the fault that she had picked at. I had to swallow it simply because I wanted to keep my job in those still tender years. I was in no position to threaten with a resignation within 24 hours as Darren had done. He's got the capital as many would say. I laud him for his guts. In any case, a boss should not take it out on a subordinate just because he or she is under pressure. A boomerang would hit somewhere hard on one of those unlucky days. Anyway, Darren is a free man in all aspects of the word. He has fought back and freedom is his reward.
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同是天涯沦落人!-YT
ReplyDeleteAfter reading your article on 'Fighting Back At The Right Time', I became aware of the rationale behind Darren's outrage over his female superior's unfair and harsh remarks replete with abuses.
ReplyDeleteI feel such abuses are uncalled for indeed. Her holier-than-thou attitude and superiority complex reflect her personality very negatively. It is obvious that whenever she reprimands her subordinates, she would never bother to consider the person's feeling of humiliation. How disgusting it is! However, in this world, what goes around comes around. She should do well to remember this. In Hinduism, it is called Karma while in English, it is Poetic Justice or comeuppance.
To Darren, I would advise him to look at the bright side of things. Please remember that every cloud has a silver lining. Darren's decision to call it quits from his job could possibly be a blessing in disguise in that a greener pasture may be just around the corner. Think positively and act positively. As one corporate leader in Singapore has said, at hard times, one must exude positive energies and wash his world with protons, the positive ions in the air. How true it is!
Darren, cheer up.
Cai Zai An
Kuala Lumpur
Thank you very much to my dear friends!!!-----Darren
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